A friend tells me, It is simply difficult to woo my girlfriend. Oh C'mon, she is your girlfriend, what else do you need. Now the next question, she doesn't give me attention the way I do, I say you are thinking too much, give her some space dude! and the Next, what if she looses interest in me, I say if she really likes you or loves you, she won't leave you unless you screw things up first. Next, how would I know if it is real, I say, You just Know, How would I know(disgusting tone!) Stop trying so Hard, you men!
I don't want to give competition to some kind of misogynous movement, this happens with men too. Poor men. Somehow I pity men more than women. Women has this nonchalant quality of putting everything on her stride and making it work well for herself. We are so mean sometimes. I get it. But it does not even closely relate to things man can do to women emotionally.
I also understand the several debates which one has been through has always stroked the subject why a woman is more fragile when it comes to strength and why man is when it is about emotional matters. Let me tell you ladies, man has a heart and they love you, It is you who misuse it. Ledas(yes, gentlemen, I am talking to you) that girl you like is of opposite gender, she has to react differently than you, you don't want to be brothers, do you?
I understand the disparity amongst the Men and Women or Girls or Boys, whichever you feel comfortable to address it as. Still there is always cribbing about each and everything they feel about. If there is distinguishable factor, one should show it. You must be knowing, all of us have a girl and boy, both in you, not the parts, but the feel and the behavior. So utilize it. Do some Anulomvilom and stop cribbing!
I am in a phase where I have no work. I crib. Then I crib about cribbing. Then comes cribbing the crib out of crib, that's what I follow it up with. Yes, I just did that for some cribber who was trying get the crib out of me. Now everything sounds simple non-sense.
This post is small, Thank me!
Lesson: Think like an individual. More like putting yourself in other shoes, it will help you in long run, trust me!
and then Man-Woman war and decry is not something that is going to end and we would not want it to end, so Enjoy :D
Friday, November 18, 2011
Thursday, November 17, 2011
Need or Want, choose one!
When I was born, I watched my doctor pulling me out of my Mom's womb with such difficulty. Her forehead frown was so evident to my twinkly eyes that it gave me concussion. Right there I knew, my life will be difficult. At least for others around, if not me.
Now where am I getting at? I know it may seem out of context if I say I want to have brownies Now! For you, it may mean - wow, what a idea, can I join in, Brownies sounds so ummm tasty with those walnuts and chocolate sauce dripping. I know brownies are not made and presented in this manner but I would like to imagine it that way considering I like to keep the layers dry when I bake and I don't like to eat them. Exactly, I don't like it, but I want to have it! See!
People tend to forget that there are species other than theirs and every species has their own junk of requirement. By species, I don't mean just human, it's their habits and their fit-in circles and by junk, I mean things which are wanted, not needed and that's where my thoughts are stuck today. It kills me when those rich kids buy stuffs which are not even close to their liking, but buy just for trends. Well again, it is their lookout. Their parents lookout. Their banks and its balances' lookout. However there are cases when the want to do something is very behavioral and more emotionally-forced out of restlessness of the human body, mind and insecurity.
The other day while I was travelling in the train, this lady picked up a fight against me just for the sake of it. It will be wrong of me to say I did not do any wrong, I just stamped on her leg and pushed her a bit so that I can get down on the next approaching station. But her point of screaming at me with all the maharashtrian abusive words ever known to bayakos and half-not-known words were intimidating. Apparently she was trying to get her mind cleansed, by doing that, she was extricating all the negative vibes, I assumed. So I kept quite and after a while, she was silent as well and I could see a sighing relief on her face. Because, pointing out mistakes and preaching about it is easier than to correct them in an efficient way. I find myself a hero here :D It could also mean that she was irritated my me and thought I was useless to hear those rants. Jokes apart(if there was any), the point is expelling those emotions gave her mind some calmness, if not, I choose to believe that.
My mind is torn apart and my thoughts along with the examples are scattered today. This post brings me to nothing but just few things I would want to change in this world, that is Nothing. It is very humane, I would simply say.
Lesson: How-Ever we differentiate Need and Want, there is at least one intersecting point for every damn business in this world.
BTW, the first statement is for the complex thoughts that I have and how I put that across for people like you. Enjoy! *sprints to long lost island*
Now where am I getting at? I know it may seem out of context if I say I want to have brownies Now! For you, it may mean - wow, what a idea, can I join in, Brownies sounds so ummm tasty with those walnuts and chocolate sauce dripping. I know brownies are not made and presented in this manner but I would like to imagine it that way considering I like to keep the layers dry when I bake and I don't like to eat them. Exactly, I don't like it, but I want to have it! See!
People tend to forget that there are species other than theirs and every species has their own junk of requirement. By species, I don't mean just human, it's their habits and their fit-in circles and by junk, I mean things which are wanted, not needed and that's where my thoughts are stuck today. It kills me when those rich kids buy stuffs which are not even close to their liking, but buy just for trends. Well again, it is their lookout. Their parents lookout. Their banks and its balances' lookout. However there are cases when the want to do something is very behavioral and more emotionally-forced out of restlessness of the human body, mind and insecurity.
The other day while I was travelling in the train, this lady picked up a fight against me just for the sake of it. It will be wrong of me to say I did not do any wrong, I just stamped on her leg and pushed her a bit so that I can get down on the next approaching station. But her point of screaming at me with all the maharashtrian abusive words ever known to bayakos and half-not-known words were intimidating. Apparently she was trying to get her mind cleansed, by doing that, she was extricating all the negative vibes, I assumed. So I kept quite and after a while, she was silent as well and I could see a sighing relief on her face. Because, pointing out mistakes and preaching about it is easier than to correct them in an efficient way. I find myself a hero here :D It could also mean that she was irritated my me and thought I was useless to hear those rants. Jokes apart(if there was any), the point is expelling those emotions gave her mind some calmness, if not, I choose to believe that.
My mind is torn apart and my thoughts along with the examples are scattered today. This post brings me to nothing but just few things I would want to change in this world, that is Nothing. It is very humane, I would simply say.
Lesson: How-Ever we differentiate Need and Want, there is at least one intersecting point for every damn business in this world.
BTW, the first statement is for the complex thoughts that I have and how I put that across for people like you. Enjoy! *sprints to long lost island*
Tuesday, November 15, 2011
My Theories and their unusual progressions
Hypothetical theories that I invent are beyond anybody's imaginations. The moment I say it, people pounce on with contradicts and their debate points. I just make a passe by saying "To each, his or her opinion" and I am done! :) Isn't that sweet!
Some of the characteristics in man as a social animal (which we term it as, conveniently, Yes, I have an argument there) is unbelievably rhetorical.
One can be insane to the core, not just by the way one thinks, which is acceptable but also the way one reacts to a situation. Totally understandable if someone comes and tell me, lets kill that tower standing there so that we can see some electric jitters flowing out and we have some spectacular view, but if you come along and tell me, that lets kill that tower so that we don't have the light for eternity, that is insane. I know, there is at least one person who is reading this has an argument and want to beat me up, but that is how it is. To each, his or her opinion *tongue-swagging*
Most of times, I think the smileys or emoticons which we use are just a substitute for whatever we want to avoid saying it loud or not telling at all. Most of you will agree that you and I don't reply to some questions just to avoid that big serious or sometimes lame conversations. Most of you will also agree that, by doing this, you are hurting the opposite person and if that opposite guy or girl understands what you are doing there, you feel sad and you have that undesired conversation. Poor you! Most of you will disagree with what I convey here, just to make sure that you have a point too. Again, completely acceptable and To each, his or her thoughts.
Yesterday, I made a new theory with a statement that one who hasn't smoked yet(as they claim), smokes at least once in a lifetime. Now, this was offending to people who think they don't and will never touch the cigarette or weed or whatever. They say I cant even breathe when I am around the smokers. Hello! you just smoked while you were trying hard to breathe. One fails to understand that passive smoking is unavoidable and you have been or will be a smoker at least once in your lifetime, because last time I checked 25-30% of the world population smokes and you cannot be that aloof to be not around them for at least once. You agree or not, To each, his or her opinion.
Man is a social animal, bullshit! We want to be, hence we are being that character-proven animal. Being an animal, I agree, ancestors ki Jai Ho! I have never felt we were a "social" animal. I will put it as it is what we want to believe and to be fitted in any circles. I sometimes choose to be introvert, which is also socially acceptable, as far as my social abilities to bond go. There I said it, "socially acceptable". Contradictory statements, eh? Yes, I choose to say it that way and anyway, it is To each, his or her opinion.
I would have loved to narrate a story to elaborate my first statement. However, it will be very delirious of me to dissolve that statement that cool-ly (I am being stoopid today, quite judgemental per say). I have many more things touted as hypothetical unrelying theories , more practically inclined. If I start that, I don't want you to break our friendship or have you done it already *runs away*
I am short of words today and I write all my piece of chunk in 15 minutes, everything else remains in the cloud of thought which I think about during the remaining part of the day and don't care about coming back and logging it here with corrections. I assume, its understandable. So here it is, one more debate point without a complete note of a certain reference.
Lesson: I blabber out of topic a lot and be eccentric at the same time. Note to myself - dude, keep it short!
Next time onwards, with "To each, his or her opinion", I am contemplating on including Conditions Apply with a "*" :D
Some of the characteristics in man as a social animal (which we term it as, conveniently, Yes, I have an argument there) is unbelievably rhetorical.
One can be insane to the core, not just by the way one thinks, which is acceptable but also the way one reacts to a situation. Totally understandable if someone comes and tell me, lets kill that tower standing there so that we can see some electric jitters flowing out and we have some spectacular view, but if you come along and tell me, that lets kill that tower so that we don't have the light for eternity, that is insane. I know, there is at least one person who is reading this has an argument and want to beat me up, but that is how it is. To each, his or her opinion *tongue-swagging*
Most of times, I think the smileys or emoticons which we use are just a substitute for whatever we want to avoid saying it loud or not telling at all. Most of you will agree that you and I don't reply to some questions just to avoid that big serious or sometimes lame conversations. Most of you will also agree that, by doing this, you are hurting the opposite person and if that opposite guy or girl understands what you are doing there, you feel sad and you have that undesired conversation. Poor you! Most of you will disagree with what I convey here, just to make sure that you have a point too. Again, completely acceptable and To each, his or her thoughts.
Yesterday, I made a new theory with a statement that one who hasn't smoked yet(as they claim), smokes at least once in a lifetime. Now, this was offending to people who think they don't and will never touch the cigarette or weed or whatever. They say I cant even breathe when I am around the smokers. Hello! you just smoked while you were trying hard to breathe. One fails to understand that passive smoking is unavoidable and you have been or will be a smoker at least once in your lifetime, because last time I checked 25-30% of the world population smokes and you cannot be that aloof to be not around them for at least once. You agree or not, To each, his or her opinion.
Man is a social animal, bullshit! We want to be, hence we are being that character-proven animal. Being an animal, I agree, ancestors ki Jai Ho! I have never felt we were a "social" animal. I will put it as it is what we want to believe and to be fitted in any circles. I sometimes choose to be introvert, which is also socially acceptable, as far as my social abilities to bond go. There I said it, "socially acceptable". Contradictory statements, eh? Yes, I choose to say it that way and anyway, it is To each, his or her opinion.
I would have loved to narrate a story to elaborate my first statement. However, it will be very delirious of me to dissolve that statement that cool-ly (I am being stoopid today, quite judgemental per say). I have many more things touted as hypothetical unrelying theories , more practically inclined. If I start that, I don't want you to break our friendship or have you done it already *runs away*
I am short of words today and I write all my piece of chunk in 15 minutes, everything else remains in the cloud of thought which I think about during the remaining part of the day and don't care about coming back and logging it here with corrections. I assume, its understandable. So here it is, one more debate point without a complete note of a certain reference.
Lesson: I blabber out of topic a lot and be eccentric at the same time. Note to myself - dude, keep it short!
Next time onwards, with "To each, his or her opinion", I am contemplating on including Conditions Apply with a "*" :D
Sunday, November 13, 2011
Usual Non-sense
Now this is something unexpected. I dont even open my diary this often. It is an altogether different matter that, I dont carry my notes and notepad to work. Today is something different. I will talk about all the wierdness I went through last week. I quoted last week, I am a lady with few words, so I will stick to it.
Firstly, Deadly start of the week it was. I forgot to carry my cellphone and the so-called novellas of mine. There's an entry of the encounter here on the blog. Nevertheless, it was stupid of me.
Secondly, EC is getting un-populated with no spammers and there is a paradise altogether for that on FB. Need a stat, No.
Thirdly, Super fun speaking to unlikely people who share almost the same dream as I do. Added to that, no one is nerd as the stereotype goes.
Fourth, I lost my sense of humor somewhere last week. Frankly, I dont even have a H of humour in me, but dry humor is always a good companion to keep your mind busy when idle. Point to be noted, I am boring like a pebble on the shore.
Fifth, Roaming and chitchatting with ex-roomies and friends was some kinda rejuvenation, I must say.
Sixth, I am obsessing over numbers. See the pattern above. Since the realization took over, I wont number but just note it down.
I think I have started having dementia. Only because, I am just talking about myself today, and forgot I have people around. What happened to the world, dude and duddettes!
Correction, Selfish that I have become!
Edit: This was added when blogger was not accepting the HTML tags. Normally, investigation is the first thing that I do, however today, I am just pushing the button to make it happen magically and get it posted on its own :|
Lesson: Stop overthinking and being selfish and get back to work, moron!
I so feel this piece of chunk is a waste. I blame, Wuthering heights :|
Firstly, Deadly start of the week it was. I forgot to carry my cellphone and the so-called novellas of mine. There's an entry of the encounter here on the blog. Nevertheless, it was stupid of me.
Secondly, EC is getting un-populated with no spammers and there is a paradise altogether for that on FB. Need a stat, No.
Thirdly, Super fun speaking to unlikely people who share almost the same dream as I do. Added to that, no one is nerd as the stereotype goes.
Fourth, I lost my sense of humor somewhere last week. Frankly, I dont even have a H of humour in me, but dry humor is always a good companion to keep your mind busy when idle. Point to be noted, I am boring like a pebble on the shore.
Fifth, Roaming and chitchatting with ex-roomies and friends was some kinda rejuvenation, I must say.
Sixth, I am obsessing over numbers. See the pattern above. Since the realization took over, I wont number but just note it down.
I think I have started having dementia. Only because, I am just talking about myself today, and forgot I have people around. What happened to the world, dude and duddettes!
Correction, Selfish that I have become!
Edit: This was added when blogger was not accepting the HTML tags. Normally, investigation is the first thing that I do, however today, I am just pushing the button to make it happen magically and get it posted on its own :|
Lesson: Stop overthinking and being selfish and get back to work, moron!
I so feel this piece of chunk is a waste. I blame, Wuthering heights :|
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